You can’t suffer enough to make someone else stop suffering. I know. I’ve tried. Everyone loses. You can’t help someone that doesn’t want to be helped. EVER. You will lose yourself in the process. Take care of you before you forget how. The rest will […]
Category: Divorce
FAILURE
What would you do if you knew you couldn’t fail? If you knew you wouldn’t fail? How about if failing was all just part of the journey to success? What then? We make failure mean there is something wrong with us. It’s really just a […]
COURAGE
We associate courage with bravery and heroes. It is more ordinary than that. Courage is about inner strength. Being afraid and doing it anyway. Not knowing the outcome. I made a commitment to embody courage and I continually challenge myself to do hard things. Even […]
JUDGEMENT
Let people judge you. It has nothing to do with you and EVERYTHING to do with them. Seriously. Once you can fully understand this, you are free to be who you really are. Don’t waste time proving them wrong. It has everything to do with […]
OBLIGATION
What would it feel like to do things because you WANT to, not because you feel like you HAVE to? Amazing, right? When we agree to do things out of obligation, it builds resentment. We aren’t being honest with ourselves. We don’t REALLY want to […]
FOOD FOR THOUGHT
We all know that what we feed will grow. People, plants, animals. The same goes for our minds. If we keep thinking negative thoughts, we will be plagued with hate, anger, insecurity, doubt, shame, etc. That’s a dark place to live. I know, I lived […]
PLAYING SMALL?
Have you ever played small? Maybe it’s to let other’s shine? Or maybe you have yet to own your greatness. Sometimes it’s unconscious. Either way, it will become a habit. You are selling yourself short. STOP. RIGHT. NOW. I’m speaking from experience here. I didn’t […]
FEAR
It’s scary to do something we think we are terrible at. Worse yet, something we think we already know the outcome to. No one knows this better than me. It’s been a year of doing things that I BELIEVED I was really bad at. Doing […]
BETRAYAL
HELP If you have been betrayed and are in pain, this is the blog for you. More than that, if you feel stuck in that pain and isolation like you’ve failed somehow and are searching for help, THIS is the blog for you. If you […]
GRIEVING THE LOSS OF A RELATIONSHIP – Part 2
TIME How does time play in to grief? It doesn’t. In fact, time has nothing to do with it. That’s one of the biggest myths. Just give it time. That is not true at all. Time can pass. It’s not the amount of time that […]
