Ok, here is some tough love. We all have a sad story. We all have stress. So many responsibilities. We get to choose how to tell our story. Do you tell your story with a lot of drama? Do you tell your story and sound […]
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EXPECTATIONS
Most of us don’t set expectations for ourselves. We try to live up to the expectations of others, but fail to set any for ourselves. Then we wonder why we can’t get anything done. When I started setting goals and having expectations of myself, I […]
JEALOUSY
Did you know that jealousy is a red flag that we don’t feel worthy? I know this more than anyone. Of all the emotions that I have dealt with since my divorce, I don’t love admitting this one. I was ashamed of it. It was […]
BLAME
We’ve all blamed someone for something in our lives.That makes them our villain.And where there is a villain, there is ALWAYS a victim.Do you want to be a victim?When I realized that I made myself a victim, it was a huge eye opener.Not me, I’m […]
TAKING RESPONSIBILITY
SUFFERING You can’t suffer enough to make someone else stop suffering. I can’t tell you how much this sentence resonates with me. To the point of tears. Nor should you expect the same of someone else. When we believe we aren’t responsible for our own […]
THE COURAGE TO FACE PAIN
I never thought there would be a day when I would truly believe the thought that I wanted my ex-husband to be happy. That was too painful. He’s happy and I’m not? I still had a lot of work to do. I knew that I […]
