Do you feel like you should be over it by now? Seriously, I should be over this. Why am I still struggling? I asked myself that question so many times. The only time we want to really talk about grief is when we are grieving. […]
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MY HAPPY PLACE
TRUST This picture was taken at the end of November and was one of my most memorable days of riding last year. It all started last spring when I signed up for 2 mountain bike classes, by myself, a little scared and not really knowing […]
HEALING
STRENGTH What does healing mean? What does it look like? For those in pain and suffering, we desperately want it, NEED it. Real healing isn’t pretty; it is hard, exhausting, and draining. It is messy. It has no timeline. Just when you think you are […]
STRUGGLING AFTER DIVORCE: PART 1
ANXIETY Do you struggle with anxiety following your divorce? I know I did. It turns out anxiety became a significant part of my life for a couple of decades. For years during my marriage I had anxiety, but I had no idea. If you’ve had […]
TAKING RESPONSIBILITY
SUFFERING You can’t suffer enough to make someone else stop suffering. I can’t tell you how much this sentence resonates with me. To the point of tears. Nor should you expect the same of someone else. When we believe we aren’t responsible for our own […]
THE COURAGE TO FACE PAIN
I never thought there would be a day when I would truly believe the thought that I wanted my ex-husband to be happy. That was too painful. He’s happy and I’m not? I still had a lot of work to do. I knew that I […]
