When I went through my divorce, I tried to shelter my kids as much as I could.
But that is not possible.
We cannot eliminate suffering.
My job is to love my kids.
Hold space for them to go through what they need to go through, but always love them.
When they shut down, we shut down because we feel like we are failing.
Nothing positive comes from feeling like a failure.
Just be real and open instead of trying to change who they are.
Hold space for yourself as well so you can show up with love.
This is how we have learned to do things at my house. ❤
I can help you learn the tools to do the same with your children.
