It probably won’t happen. Harsh right? I’m interested in a lot of things. Stretch more, get my kids outside more, take piano lessons, learn Spanish. Are any of those things taking place? No. How does change happen then? You must be committed to it. Don’t […]
Tag: growth
FEEL OK
I heard a song and it struck me. It said “I just want to feel ok”. I remember thinking that. A LOT. I felt lost, definitely not ok. Looking back, I felt that way most of my life. So when I was going through my […]
WHY HOPE IS DANGEROUS
Hoping for something and working for something are two different things. Here’s an example from my life. I was 46, divorced, and had two young-ish kids. I knew I wanted a relationship again someday, but here’s what I told myself: You’re getting old. Strike 1. Most […]
STORMS
Lifetime of calm water? No thank you. Those storms made me the person I am today. I wouldn’t have the great friendships I have now without those lessons. I wouldn’t be the mom I am without those experiences. I know for a fact I wouldn’t […]
ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT
You always get to ask for what you want. Just know you may not get it. And that’s ok. We don’t want people to do what they aren’t capable of doing. What they don’t WANT to do. On the flip side, they may not know […]
DISCOMFORT
It’s so hard to feel discomfort; to endure it when we don’t know what is on the other side. It’s so much easier when we know what is coming. A hard hike, but we know the view of the lake is spectacular. Cleaning the garage, […]
PERFECTIONISM
It’s almost paralyzing. We either people please or become so incredibly unproductive in an effort to be perfect. Either way, we can’t possibly be our true selves. Perfection is so much about how we want the world to view us, not who we really are. […]
CREATING RESULTS
I was reading something about the results in our lives and I read a statement about how the stars had aligned or maybe you just get lucky. I don’t believe that for a second. I realized that the things that I have in my life […]
RELATIONSHIPS
The health of your relationship is not the amount of time you spend together, it’s your thoughts about each other.Think about it.Take an ex-spouse or ex-boyfriend/girlfriend. Don’t kid yourself, if you’re still thinking about them, you still have a relationship with them.Maybe you don’t even […]
UGLY TRUTH
Ok, here is some tough love. We all have a sad story. We all have stress. So many responsibilities. We get to choose how to tell our story. Do you tell your story with a lot of drama? Do you tell your story and sound […]
