Ouch. This might hurt. As long as you are feeling sorry for yourself, you will be stuck. It’s normal, it’s hard out there, right? Life challenges us. Things happen. Rise up to the challenges. Put your ego aside. Take responsibility. When I stopped feeling sorry for […]
Tag: self worth
PERFECTIONISM
It’s almost paralyzing. We either people please or become so incredibly unproductive in an effort to be perfect. Either way, we can’t possibly be our true selves. Perfection is so much about how we want the world to view us, not who we really are. […]
CREATING RESULTS
I was reading something about the results in our lives and I read a statement about how the stars had aligned or maybe you just get lucky. I don’t believe that for a second. I realized that the things that I have in my life […]
RELATIONSHIPS
The health of your relationship is not the amount of time you spend together, it’s your thoughts about each other.Think about it.Take an ex-spouse or ex-boyfriend/girlfriend. Don’t kid yourself, if you’re still thinking about them, you still have a relationship with them.Maybe you don’t even […]
UGLY TRUTH
Ok, here is some tough love. We all have a sad story. We all have stress. So many responsibilities. We get to choose how to tell our story. Do you tell your story with a lot of drama? Do you tell your story and sound […]
LOVE
Here’s what I’ve learned about love:I fall in love easily.I’m not sure if that’s good or bad.I have a huge capacity to love.Deep in my soul I KNOW that’s a good thing.But when I experience loss, it’s incredibly painful.And then I wonder if it’s all […]
SELF-WORTH
What do you believe about your worth? That you aren’t good enough? Be careful, you will try to prove that belief. You WILL find proof. You may even create the evidence. Not smart enough? Make sure you tell yourself and others that you aren’t intelligent […]
YOUR LIFE
If you wrote a book about your life, what would the title be? I’m a Failure? I’m Not Very Accomplished? I’m Not Good Enough? Those WERE my book titles. What would you like it to be? Think about it. I Change Lives. I Failed My […]
FEEL
What if we weren’t in a hurry to feel better? What if the pain & hurt we are feeling is a call to pay attention to ourselves? If we don’t feel good, we need to understand WHY. We need to stay in pain long enough […]
TAKE YOUR POWER BACK
A lot of people think they would be happier if someone in their lives would just change.It is very damaging when your emotional happiness is tied directly to someone behaving a certain way.If they DO change for you, it won’t be lasting change.You will ALWAYS […]
