Do you have regrets?
If so, have you chosen to do life any differently?
When I think about my business, I measure my actions by regret.
Will I regret not trying to be an entrepreneur?
Will I regret not pushing myself to learn things I’m afraid to do?
Yes. One hundred percent. So I push past the fear and DO IT.
When I decided to blog about deeply personal experiences, I had to decide if the exposure was something I would regret. My journey will either resonate with you or it won’t. It can make people uncomfortable. I’m ok with that. It makes ME uncomfortable.
Why do it then? There might be one person out there that identifies with a part of my story, sees themselves in my struggles, and doesn’t feel alone. That makes it all worth it for me. I will NEVER regret that.
When I think about my life, I do the exact same thing.
Will I look back and regret not telling the people in my life the truth?
When faced with making a decision to be totally open and honest in a relationship or being guarded and scared, I ask myself about regret.
Same answer; embrace the discomfort and DO. IT. ANYWAY.
I’m still learning because I’m human.
I mess up because I’m still messy at times.
Things I will never regret:
-Being the mom that my kids feel safe enough to have hard discussions with. Divorce gives you the opportunity to step up your parenting game. I’m in.
-Telling the people in my life how amazing they are as often as I can.
-Being ALL IN in all my relationships.
-Telling myself the truth, even when I want to hide from it.
-Owning my mistakes and learning from them.
-Learning how to communicate and having hard conversations.
-GROWTH, COURAGE, VULNERABILITY.
So, what regrets do you have about your life?
Use those as a chance to step up YOUR game. In ten years from now, do you want to be DOING the same things, FEELING the same things, and BEING the same person that you are today? If the answer is no, you are in the right place.
There is always hope where there is a willingness to learn. You are the only person that can begin to live a life without regrets. I can show you how. Click on this Coaching link and sign up for a free 20 minute consultation and I’ll tell you about the high value transformation that I provide.
