It probably won’t happen. Harsh right? I’m interested in a lot of things. Stretch more, get my kids outside more, take piano lessons, learn Spanish. Are any of those things taking place? No. How does change happen then? You must be committed to it. Don’t […]
Tag: change
FEEL OK
I heard a song and it struck me. It said “I just want to feel ok”. I remember thinking that. A LOT. I felt lost, definitely not ok. Looking back, I felt that way most of my life. So when I was going through my […]
GET BACK IN THE RING
Brene Brown. She is a hero of mine. I have always said she changed my life, but when I look back, she didn’t change my life. I did that. Her words helped me, motivated me, and inspired me to change my own life. I read […]
DISCOMFORT
It’s so hard to feel discomfort; to endure it when we don’t know what is on the other side. It’s so much easier when we know what is coming. A hard hike, but we know the view of the lake is spectacular. Cleaning the garage, […]
CREATING RESULTS
I was reading something about the results in our lives and I read a statement about how the stars had aligned or maybe you just get lucky. I don’t believe that for a second. I realized that the things that I have in my life […]
RELATIONSHIPS
The health of your relationship is not the amount of time you spend together, it’s your thoughts about each other.Think about it.Take an ex-spouse or ex-boyfriend/girlfriend. Don’t kid yourself, if you’re still thinking about them, you still have a relationship with them.Maybe you don’t even […]
RESISTANCE
There are things in life that have a tremendous amount of meaning to us.When we try to deny that, we end up stuffing those emotions.We feel like it shouldn’t be a big deal.We downplay the importance it may have to us. We think we are […]
ANGER
I’ve got anger.Surprising, right?I talk a lot about healing, vulnerability, growth, and pain.But sometimes anger is a good thing.It lets us know that something might be wrong.It can be fuel to change.It makes me angry when people are told to compromise to make someone else […]
LOVE
Here’s what I’ve learned about love:I fall in love easily.I’m not sure if that’s good or bad.I have a huge capacity to love.Deep in my soul I KNOW that’s a good thing.But when I experience loss, it’s incredibly painful.And then I wonder if it’s all […]
YOUR LIFE
If you wrote a book about your life, what would the title be? I’m a Failure? I’m Not Very Accomplished? I’m Not Good Enough? Those WERE my book titles. What would you like it to be? Think about it. I Change Lives. I Failed My […]
